Dear Confused Virgin,

You're the only person who can decide if you're ready to take that step. Are you ready to have sex? Does your boyfriend mean enough to you that you'd want to give him your virginity?

Don't do it until you know you are ready.

Taking It to the Next Level

Love and trust are great, but has she really thought about the consequences?

If you love and trust him enough and feel you are ready to take the relationship to the next level, then you probably won't regret it.

There's No Standard Time To Start Sex

True. But it should be longer than a month!

Don't feel like you have to because it's "usual" in a serious relationship. There's no set time period for when to have sex in a serious relationship.

Don't give it up until you know you are ready. Then there won't be any regret.

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