Dear Confused...

If You Aren't Sure, Don't Do It

Pardon me, but what exactly do you have to be confused about? It seems you are hesitant to take that next step, so why even think about it? If you aren't sure, then don't do it. Simple as that.

Don't Do It Just To Keep Him

This guy seems to like you. That's a great thing. I can understand you wanting to do something you may not be ready for to keep him with you.

Right. And if he doesn't understand, she can find a guy who does respects her.

WARNING: don't think like that!!! If he is really into you, then he'll understand. You wanting to save your virginity until your wedding night is your decision, not anyone else's.

Wait Longer Than a Month

You guys have been together for a month? Maybe it's just me, but waiting doesn't sound like a bad idea. You'll know when it's right. Just stand by your beliefs and you'll be fine.If you decide to have sex with him, I would definitely say wait longer than just month. (I still say wait till your married...okay???)

Just wait until you know it's right. It may be when you're married, or sooner. It's all up to you, okay?

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