Dear Char,

I agree. She should definitely break it off.

I think you should consider ending your relationship. It's really not fair for you to have to share your man's brain space with two other women.

Let's summarize the situation. You said that from the beginning your boyfriend admitted he was still hung up on his ex-girlfriend. He said she was his "soul-mate."

He Has Too Many Hang Ups

He hounded his ex-girlfriend so much that she had to get her guy to threaten him to stop. Isn't this where we hear the sound of the needle scratching off the record? And on top of this little "hang-up" of his, he's got additional hang-ups with his ex-wife.

You're wrong. Their relationship has a great foundation.

This just doesn't sound like a healthy start to a relationship. Yeah, maybe if you're just looking for a roll in the hay with someone "cute."

Think About Your Child

But you've got a little one to think about too. Decisions you make based on a five week relationship can affect your child for the rest of his or her life.

Cut Him Loose Now

Maybe deep down your boyfriend really is a great guy. If that's the case, after you cut him loose maybe he'll shape up and come back to you in a year when he's ready to be in ONE relationship with YOU ALONE.

Good Luck.

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