Dear Panel,

I'm a female who's 14 years old.

My boyfriend Jay is 15. He's shorter than me and hasn't really had many girlfriends. We have been going out for about 4 months so far. Jay is one of those boys who likes to take his time in a relationship. On the other hand, I like doing all the boyfriend-girlfriend things.

We haven't kissed yet, even though I want to. He said when the time is right, he will. I want to kiss him soon.

Corey is this kid who likes me a lot and wants to go out with me, but he is 12. He said if I go out with him then he would do all the boyfriend-girlfriend things that Jay doesn't do with me.

I really like Jay a lot. But he just doesn't act like a boyfriend. He says he loves me more than anything in this world. And I would never want to do anything to hurt him.

What do you think I should do – should I stay with Jay or go with Corey?

– Confusing Love

Female, age 14, USA

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