Dear Freak,

Everyone goes through a dry spell. It's how you deal with it that changes your life...

Honestly, stop blaming what happened in the past for your situations in the present. You are the only one that can change your future.

Change Your Attitude

Yes, people really do notice. He has to see himself in a positive light.

So with that said - start by changing your attitutude towards yourself. You look down upon yourself so much that it projects to other people - whether you realize it or not...

My mother always told me that as long as you love yourself, than others will love you too. A therapist can't solve your problems until you are willing to do most of the work. You know when you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped?!? Well that's you...only you're depending on a woman for happiness.

Dust Yourself Off

You seem like a great guy who's had bad experiences. Who hasn't?!? But you need to pick yourself up and dust yourself off! Stop the pity and go enjoy life. All the great things in life never happened over night nor without any work. It takes time and effort to make relationships work...

Try Something New

So once you're down with the self-pity, go and try something new. Like a martial arts class or jogging through the park. You need motivation to keep you happy and a relationship should contribute to it and not be the only reason.

Hope I've Helped,

– Mel