Dear Panel,

I have a perfect boyfriend of 3 years. We have our ups and downs but he is just wonderful, and provides for ALL my needs.

However, I feel unsatisfied to a point that I still look for other people. I think I love him but I'm not sure if that's, because of the length of time we've been together, or because it's just force of habit.

Out of all the people I've met there is one that I cannot let go of, Clark. When I see Clark, I have all the symptoms of wanting to be with him. But when we are together, I get freaked out because his isn't the face I'm used to.

We've hooked up twice, but both times ended badly because I got that bad feeling. I miss Clark very much and wish to talk with him.

Should I call him? Is there a way for me to be friends with him? I don't want him out of my life but I can't seem to let go of my current boyfriend. What's wrong with me? What should I do?

– Faye W.

Female, age 21, USA