Dear Ammon,

In my opinion you can have a long lasting, meaningful relationship with out having many of the same interests.

Feeling The Spark Is A Good Sign

There is a difference between having something in common with someone and that spark you were talking about. I think that the "spark" means a lot more than having similar interests.

I don't really see a problem with not having similar interests as long as your partner respects your interests and you respect theirs.

If It Feels Right, You're Doing Good

I agree. She should go for it.

As long as there's plenty else to do together and talk about, and as long as it feels right to be together then I'd say that you're doing pretty good.

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