Dear Holly,

He's Not Cheating

I agree. He's not hiding anything.

It doesn't sound as if he's cheating on you currently.

I can see where your worries are coming from. It sounds as if he might be a bit of an excessive flirt, and the possibility does exist that he might take things too far.

Discuss It With Him

Maybe you should sit down and discuss things with him. Don't openly ask or accuse him of cheating, instead, tell him your feelings on the behavior between himself and Rachel.

Let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable, and even tell him what you think of Rachel as opposed to yourself. Knowing your feelings on this matter might also help him to see things from a different point of view.

Talk To Rachel

Also, talking to your roommate about this situation might also be good. Tell her what you stated about her looks, and how that makes you nervous that your boyfriend might want to cheat on you with her. Don't jump to any conclusions, but let her know how their actions are making you feel.

Best of luck,

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