A Reader Responds:
I Agree With Miss Kitty
Agreed Miss Kitty. And no sundae is complete without it.
But you have to make sure the other ingredients are all
right before you put the topping on, or it just isn't right.
And 15 is young. VERY young.
You say you've know him for how long? 2 months! That's
not long enough. You DON'T know this person as well you
probably think you do.
My Friends Are Waiting
I have two friends who've recently started dating. By
recently, I mean 5 weeks. 5 weeks. They were friends for
a year and a half before they started dating. They've been
sleeping together for the last few weeks, but still haven't
done the horizontal tango (to the best of my knowledge).
They have a truly great and highly enviable relationship
(from the outside looking in anyway; I don't know what they
think about it).
You Should Wait
You should wait. And wait. And wait. Has he asked for it?
If not, he probably hasn't even thought about it yet. And
I don't know why you have. If he has, well then he's rushing
into it, and is probably only in it for himself (I'd know.
I'm a guy).
When he says "I love you, baby.", it may sound
good, but it's the second most popular device for getting
laid. The first being alcohol.
As for those two friends of mine; they've seen each other
naked. Showered together. Slept together. Everything that
a married couple might do but have sex. They've put consideration
into it, talked about it, joked about, even fantasized about
it together. But they haven't actually done it.
Take my friends as role-models. I can tell you now that
you'll regret it if you do it.
– Johnathon
Male, age 16, Australia
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