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Dear Loved Up,
If I were your mother, I might be telling you to wait. That this
may not be "the one" and you may, in hindsight, regret
sharing your physical love with this boy. Sex changes a relationship,
and not always for the better.
If I were your peer or your girlfriend, I might tell you to go
ahead but be sure to use birth control protection.
Explore Love and Romance First
If I were a complete stranger (and I am), I would tell you to wait
and explore the love and romantic portion of this relationship before
you explore the physical part.
You are still very young and your heart will fill up and be broken
many times in your life. This is your first serious love experience.
Enjoy it, but do be smart about your body -- who you share it with
and when you share it.
 There's
More To Love Than Just Sex
Love is not just sex. It is caring for one another. It is enjoying
each other's company. It is basking in the glow of simply knowing
each other.
These are true sides of the love triangle. Sex is the flavorful
topping on a relationship sundae. Save it for later, if you are
able.
Enjoy what you have now, which is lovely, and which is enough.
– Miss
Kitty
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