Dear Panel,

My boyfriend of a year broke up with me last night because he said that he trurly does not think that deep down inside I'm the person he should be with.

Out of Nowhere, He Decides To Beome A Strict Christian

He's on a kind of spritual journey and because my sprituality does not match his he can not be with me. I consider myself a very spirtual person. I believe in God immensly and have a need for him in my life, but because my boyfriend wants to become a strict Christian, I'm not good enough anymore. I feel that he's pushing me away. For the longest time we have been so close, then this came up out of nowhere.

I Don't Feel I Should Have To Change

He asked me to change my spirituality and that scared me. I love him but don't feel I should have to change. Am I right? What should I do, what should I say?

Its only been a few hours but the thought of us not being together is killing me. I have never been so in love with someone. Help!

Female, age 20, Washington DC

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