Dear Panel,

I am a college student a year away from graduation. Mike is a wonderful guy and I'm very much in love with him.

We've been dating for five years. For the last four years we've had a long distance relationship.

I'm convinced that this is the man I want to marry. But whenever I bring up anything having to do with marriage, he seems to get uncomfortable. I told him that I want to marry him and he replied that I would make a great wife but he wants to make sure I'm the one.

Why does he get uncomfortable about the subject of marriage and what should I do?

– Hopelessly in Love

Female, age 22, USA