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Dear Jealous,
I think you have a damn good reason to be jealous. I
mean, she is grinding with other guys.
Your Jealousy Is Normal
Jealousy becomes a problem when a guy doesn't even want his girlfriend
to go out. That doesn't seem to be your case.
There is no need to dance close with some guy in front of you.
Alcohol Changes People
I also have to agree with you about the alcohol thing. People do
change for the worse when they drink alcohol. Some say it brings
out the real person which is scary huh?
Drinking Has Always Been An Issue
I always had a problem when I would go out with my girlfriends
to bars. We would drink and some problem would always arise. Jealousy
always comes into the picture.
I really don't like to go out to bars anymore with girls that I
am dating. Going out to get a few drinks is fine, but no clubs or
college bars. Almost every friend I have has a fight with his girlfriend
when he brings her out with us.
Confront Her
You need to definitely confront her with your jealousy. Don't
accuse her of anything, just talk. I also recommend maybe letting
her go out with her friends by herself, that is if you trust her.
Let Her Go Out With The Girls
That is what I tell my girlfriend. Go out with your friends and
have a good time. If someone is going to cheat, you can't stop them.
Following them out to bars isn't going to do anything.
State Your Expectations
Let her have her fun and let her know how you feel. Let her know
what you expect out of her. Maybe not grinding with guys or flirting
too much.
Definitely talk about it with her. Nice and calm! Good luck, everything
will work out!
– Jimmy
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