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Dear Jealous,
Whoa buddy!! Did somebody spill their beer on you or WHAT?!?
OK. So you don't like it when your girlfriend drinks and dances
around with other guys. That makes sense, not very many people would!
You're Not That Serious
First thing I notice about this is that you say that you and your
girlfriend are serious and talk marriage, kids, etc. So where exactly
do you have this talk? On the dance floor or at the bar?
What I mean is: you say that you two are serious and are settling
down but you go to the bars and dance clubs and act up. There is
nothing wrong with that, but if you both are out living it up on
a regular basis, I wouldn't recommend discussing marriage OR kids.
(Good baby-sitters are hard to come by...believe me!)
Whichever one of you feels the need to party isn't ready to settle
down. Think about that.
Now about the alcohol problem. I think that your problem with her
drinking and not liking it when people drink is because people can't
control themselves, or YOU can't control them, eh? Am I getting
close?
You Are A Bad Match
Now I'm not calling you a jealous freak, but I am pretty close
to calling you a "bad match"! If you both want to go out
and party, she wants to dance with other guys and you want to stand
there and pout, then that is what you are...BAD MATCH!!!
You have every right to tell her how you feel, but if you have
such a problem with it, either don't go to the bars with her, or
try to convince her to grow up and stay home every now and then
with you.
Find A Hot Momma
Perhaps you should belly up to some hot mama next time you guys
are out and see if she notices or cares!
Find Someone Who Doesn't Bring Out Jealousy
All in all, talk to her about it. But if you really are a jealous
person and she brings that out in you, find someone who is more
into being with YOU and not the crowded dance floor.
Scope Out Her Competition
Meanwhile, I recommend you hit up the nearest pub ALONE and scope
out her competition. Kick back a few...see where it takes you!
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