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Dear Georgia,
I have a feeling that you have already decided what you are going
to do, but I will tell you what I think anyway.
Get Therapy With Your Husband
You need to go through some serious therapy, on your own and with
Casey too.
Too Quiet?
I absolutely cannot understand why his being "too quiet"
is a reason to chuck the marriage.
You're Immature
I think you have a very immature idea of what love is.
Sure, meeting someone and having sparks is fun -- but the majority
of your "relationship" with Jonathan has been over the
phone and Internet.
This means that most of the time you are not actually WITH Jonathan.
That is, you are living in your head.
Don't Run From Your Problems
I think you need to deal with your problems as you see them and
not run away from them (running to someone else).
Sort Out Your Marriage
I can tell from your letter that Jonathan is not the answer. The
answer is to face your problems now in your marriage. You need to
sort out one relationship before moving on to the next.
Gillian
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