Dear Inexperienced,

Hi there. Don't ever think that inexperience is a problem. Every human being started without experience at all. LOVE will never be made perfect through experience, it is a MYSTERY that comes naturally from a person without knowing how or why it came, and sometimes it also leaves as mysteriously as it came.

Keep in mind that every journey in life is an experience worth keeping and learning from. After all, experience will always be the greatest teacher you'll encounter. Would you rather pass up the chance not taking the risk because you think you are inexperienced rather than try learning your way?

Saying It And Feeling It Are Different

You have been together for only 7 months. It takes a LONG time to really FEEL you love a person but ironically it's so QUICK to SAY that in words. Most of us mistake one thing for another. We assume that by being able to say I LOVE YOU that we would automatically feel it. 

You may have said you love her because you're both experiencing problems, but what really comes from you is the need to feel to have someone comfort you and in return that you can comfort the other person. There is a great tendency that you derive you strength from each other.

Like in my case, I said " I LOVE YOU" to my husband when we were still a couple after a few dates. Looking back, it wasn't until a year or two  that I really felt what I said.

Love Starts When You Grow Together

Like I said it's when you start growing together as a person, meaning taking on challenges alone and together but still sharing it with one another brings a new chapter in your life surpassing the infatuation stage and seeing the person with LOVE in your eyes. That's the time I felt love and contentment.

Take A Risk

He's already decided how he want's the story to end. He HAS to talk to her.

If you stop here, the story ends. If you are curious and willing to explore and share your life with her, you move on to another chapter and another. You alone can decide on what ending you want to have.

Do not go on living life wondering if you are are truly happy. Happiness is a state of mind. It's a decision. If you go on wondering if you'll ever be happy, you WON'T BE. Because you'll always keep waiting for it. And any chances of happiness will pass you by because you're not seeing it for what it is.

Be true to yourself. Communicate your feelings with your girlfriend.  You will never know what's waiting on the other side of the bridge until you cross it.

Become Emotionally Intimate

Uh, what? They just need to talk.

Explore and develop your emotional intimacy together. Only then will you come to realize how much you love a person, and how much of your life you will be willing to share with her.

Hope to hear from you again. There are no winners and losers in life. Don't worry, your experience comes free of charge.

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