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Dear Inexperienced,
I can't stress this enough, communication is the key to ANY relationship.
You Need To Talk In A Relationship
It is quite serious that you feel you can't talk to this person
after having gone out with her for some time now. I understand that
you may feel sort of inferior in the fact you have had little experience
and are afraid of raising issues but in order for both you and your
girlfriend to have a happy relationship, issues have to be dealt
with.
You HAVE To Talk To Her
If you deem this person to be important enough to have taken her
through all the bad times that she has suffered then surely you
can talk to her about issues that affect you.
Talk To Her About Your Sex Life
In your question you didn't state for what reason that your sex
life has temporarily stopped only that it had stopped. This is another
question to pose, and also as sex requires (for it to be what it
should be) the desire of both involved, if you are not happy about
where it takes place, you must let her know.
She may have assumed that because you didn't like doing it in those
places, you weren't happy about having sex at all.
This is certainly something you must remedy and this can only be
done by being frank and totally honest with yourself and her in
discussing it with her. Both sides must be prepared to compromise
as sex is always a delicate matter.
Until you communicate, your courage will remain at an all-time
low and nothing will progress.
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