Dear Panel,

I am ashamed. I knowingly married a man I was not in love with. We have been married for 13 years.

I married him because I knew he would make a great husband, and he is.

The problem is, I cannot feel romantic toward him when it comes to sex. It's just sex and not important to me.

Was I or am I wrong for marrying him?

– Happily Wannabe

Female, age 42, USA