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Dear Mosobie,
Your body is your own. The fact that you're afraid that your boyfriend
will leave you because you won't have sex with him is just crazy.
Tell Him To Wait
If he can't respect you and your body, you should tell him that
he needs to wait. He maybe older and more ready but you're still
young.
You Can Still Have Fun Together
There are many different things you can do with him (besides sexual
stuff). You can still have fun going to the movies, bowling, dance
clubs, or even parties.
Sex is not everything, sometimes it is what brings down some relationships.
Too many times sex will make your family mad with you, others will
look down upon you because of what some boyfriend wanted.
Also, consider the factors of getting pregnant (which by being
so young could mess up your life forever) and diseases (and face
it, those are just something you don't want to mess with).
 The
Upside To Sex
After all those reasons why NOT to go through with it, there are
upsides too. Sex is also known as making love which if you haven't
figured out, is very personal to most people. Making love is sometimes
the strongest feeling two people can share.
All there is left to say is, it's your choice if you want to go
through with it. Live life to it's fullest but, don't let something
that can bring it down get in the way.
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