Dear Asok,

I am sure that you are not alone. All of us have some pretty sick fantasies or ideas. Not everyone admits it.

You Know Rape Is Wrong

You know it is wrong, which is GOOD. I myself suffer from obsessive thoughts that I can't control. Not rape or anything, but I do know what you are talking about.

The main thing is that you can't act on them. Do not act on them! Rape is a horrific crime. So please, if you feel yourself wanting to commit the actual act, get help.

Try Bondage

There are plenty of girls that are into all types of rough stuff in the sack. Bondage, all types of stuff. I am not sure about rape,but definitely all types of role playing. Maybe finding the right person that has exotic fantasies will satisfy your needs. I personally think that is the best thing for you.

Otherwise, your fantasies may result in you committing the act. That is how I am sure some of the serial rapists start out. Some just don't care about anyone's feelings, or destroying a life. And others, know it IS WRONG.

So try to curb or satisfy your fantasies without any type of harm, if not get help. Good luck and please keep it a fantasy!

– Jimmy