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Dear Kurdt,
The real question is, how important Courtney is to you as a friend?
If you think risking losing her as your best friend is worth it,
then you should take the gamble and pursue it again.
She Already Told You How She Feels
Since she has already told you once that she wasn't sure how she
felt about you, I doubt it will be in your favor to push the issue.
I can definitely relate to your feelings about somedays thinking
you love her and the next not knowing what exactly love is. I'm
27 and still trying sort that all out.
Hold On To Your Friendship
My advice is to hold on to her as a friend. It just seems like
there are more elements working against you right now than those
working for you.
The geographical distance wouldn't be such a big deal if her feelings
for you were already strong and established. But they're obviously
not.
Any relationship takes nurturing, especially at the beginning.
Add to that the fact that you'll be apart and her unsure feelings,
and you could be in trouble.
Friends are hard to come by. Best friends are even more difficult
to find. I say you wait it out and see if cupid might strike you
and Courtney at a later time.
Good luck!
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