Dear Kurdt,

Based on your letter, it sounds like there is a lot to build a relationship on and that you have a strong, enduring friendship with Courtney.

Tell Her How You Feel

I disagree. I don't think he should say anything to her.

If you both freely exchange feelings and opinions then you should by all means tell her again how you feel. It's not healthy to hold your feelings inside and deny yourself. You deserve an answer so that you can proceed accordingly with your life, and no matter the outcome.

But Stephanie, she already told him how she feels.

It's always better to know where you stand then to continually wonder "what if".

I hope that Courtney doesn't fall victim to grass is greener syndrome and set off in search of her "soul mate". It sounds to me like she has already found him.

Good Luck,

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