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Dear Punky,
My, my, my, I couldn't help but shake my head throughout this whole
letter.
Girl, you have your priorities all messed up! You say you are a
Christian and you try to act Christian yet you try to seduce people
just so you can lose your virginity to them? Something doesn't quite
add up here.
I know it's hard to be good all the time, but you made it sound
like it was your purpose in life to have premarital sex with this
guy. Let's not forget this guy has PLAYED with you all year long
too!
First of all, I want to know why this guy was so important to you?
You sound like all you wanted out of him was sex. He may have messed
with your emotions, but you aren't helping yourself much either
by throwing yourself at him.
You Treat Guys Like Meat
You talk about the "other guy" like he is just a piece
of meat. Saying "I just wanted to get it over with." No
matter how awful guys can be, no guy OR girl deserves to be treated
like that. Girls can use guys just as easy as guys use girls. If
you don't watch out you might find yourself in that category.
You Need A Hobby, Besides Sex
Another thing I'd like to know is why are you, at such a tender
age, so wrapped up in sex? Do you have nothing better to do with
your life than daydream about "losing it" to some guy
who won't give you the time of day? It sounds like you need something
to do.
Don't you have girlfriends you can hang out with? Or are you one
of those girls who thinks they can only be happy with a guy. Trust
me, you don't need a guy to be happy. You might just be more happy
without one.
On a more serious note, sex is not something that should be taken
lightly. I speak from experience and truth. My 17-year-old cousin
just got pregnant. She said it was her first time and the condom
must have broken. Did you even know that that can happen?
Girls need to know that pregnancy doesn't just affect them, it
affects those around them. We are all hurting because of this great
change in her life. It's not going to be easy, and she needs to
learn that, which she will, so maybe you can learn too before it's
too late.
Don't Waste Any More Time On Him
In answer to your questions, NO don't even waste your time pursuing
him. There's no such thing as keeping him now. He's obviously only
interested in you because you practically rip off your pants when
he walks into the room.
Chill out and find a man you can respect, and who will take the
time to respect you. Or better yet, ENJOY YOUR TEENAGE FREEDOM!
You've got your whole LIFE ahead of you. Go make something of it.
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