| Dear Bob,
Bob, Bob, Bob. What a mess. Please learn a lesson from this and
next time you become obsessed & jealous - be strait! That's
what being in a serious relationship is all about. Talking things
out. Clarifying miscommunications.
Flirting Is Just Part Of Her Online Identity
Here's my advice. It's going to be tough but the relationship depends
on it. Stop snooping! Your girlfriend probably doesn't think anything
of this guy or her flirting. The "tongue & cheek"
sexual references are part of her identity online.
Since you are obviously uncomfortable with her behavior, you have
three choices.
- Try and live with it.
- Leave her.
- Come clean.
 Tell
Her What You Did
Tell your girlfriend that you were jealous and did something really
stupid. Share with her what happened. Then apologize. Finally, tell
her it made your jealousy even worse because you read her flirty
comments. Bob, it's then in her court.
If you truly want a long-term relationship, learn to be honest.
Snooping through someone's dirty mail isn't going to work - we all
have dirt if you search deep enough...right Bob?
Hope it works out.
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