Dear Tinia,

He Doesn't Make You Happy

First of all, you should abstain from doing anything that makes you feel like sh*t....that's just a general rule of thumb. I know that you said you're happy, and you should be, but that sounds more like post-sex glowing to me and less like this love you're claiming to have.

You feel bad because you know what the two of you did was wrong, whether it was his move first or yours...STILL WRONG.

You also answered a lot of your own questions. "...I am in love with him and he is in love with another woman and I know that he will never be mine so I don't know why I am wasting my time right now with him."

Stop Letting Him Use You

He's is a jerk, but she's no saint!

Don't waste your time letting some guy use you for his mistress and trampling on your emotions. Do you think he's going to leave his wife and children for an employee he had a fling with?

Maybe it felt like love to you, but to him, it could have been all about his superiority over you--some guys get off on that.

Meanwhile, you're not scooping out other prospects. You could be overlooking THE ONE, while you're diddling around with the Boss-man. And all of these acclamations are based on two months of observance. In 2 months you have found the love of your life. Sorry, honey, I don't buy it.

Seems like it's come to the time where you need to fish or cut bait. Do your self a favor, invest in scissors.

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