Dear Shane,

Don't waste your life on something that you don't need. She isn't worth the pain you are putting yourself through.

If you're looking for a real relationship, look for someone new. Join the Air Force Academy, do what you want with your life.

Don't Go Out With Someone You Don't Care About

Don't just go out with someone because you want to get over her. That's wrong. If you don't really have feelings for the person, they still might have feelings for you.

Look for someone that you have something in common with. That you can actually trust, love, and be loved by. It might take some time, but in the end you might find what you need.

She Doesn't Care About You

I agree. She acts slutty so that he will end it.

This chick doesn't care about you. If she did, she wouldn't be the way she is. Flirting and hitting on someone are two different things. Flirting is a natural thing, but when it goes further, physical in ANY way, it's too much.

Break Up With Her

Break up with her. If you come back, and she changed (make sure first, don't just take her word) then maybe there's a chance of a good relationship later down the road.

Although, if you find someone new, someone you come to care for, give it a chance. You are selling yourself short by the limitations you are putting on your love life.

Just don't worry about a relationship constantly. If it works out, it's good to go. If it doesn't, then it's just not meant to be. Love is something you don't have to fight someone for. It's either mutual, or it's not.

Don't confuse yourself by trying so hard. Things won't change just because you want them too. Trust me, all it will bring is stress, heartache, and sooner or later, depression.

Talk to someone close, and hang out with your true friends before you leave, without her. It will help you relax, and cheer up a little.

Happiness comes with time, you must struggle first to stand on your own two feet.

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