| Hello Pharaoh,
Trusting Isn't Easy
Trusting someone is not the easiest thing in the world, but it
is one of the items needed for a good, long relationship.
I'm sure that you trust her just about completely but there is
always a part of us that doesn't want to. So to put it to you straight,
you're normal.
Everyone Looks At Other People
First off, you need to chill out about what she glances at, because
I know you can't tell me "I never look at another woman."
You probably don't do it in front of her but you still do it.
If you don't like that, just get her attention (which should be
easy). Give her a quick poke to the side, tickle her, or a quick
kiss would work good. After a while she'll probably catch on and
do it just to get you to give her that attention.
Tell Her You Trust Her
As for the "boyfriend in Italy," sure you can worry about
it. But I can tell you right now, it's not going to help. Just tell
her that you trust her that she won't do anything that would hurt
you. If she does do something then you know that she is not the
one for you.
About the ex-boyfriend and the beach thing, you don't know if he's
just trying to make himself feel better by making up their bad relationship.
I don't know how bad it (the relationship) was, but you know that
she loves you. Just look, you're hearing that she loves you from
your other friends.
It sounds like you have a very good girl. Just don't do something
that would make it go sour. I don't know who said this, but remember,
"Love is the world's greatest mystery. No one can solve it
for you. You must earn the right to it."
Maybe that quote won't help you, but we all need a reminder that
no one will be able to make our relationships successful.
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