Dear Panel,

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 2 years. We just recently moved in together, and for the last 3 weeks we have been fighting. It seems like it's not even worth it anymore.

I have been seeing this other guy on the side for about a month. We both love each other but he is engaged and I have my boyfriend. We were thinking about just running away together, but we don't know if it is the right thing to do. We don't wanna hurt anyone, but we're not happy in our current situation.

Should we try and make our current relationships work or just give up and be together?

– Skittles

Female, age 18, USA