| Dear Johnny,
It sounds to me like you are going through the same situation that
many young people go through as they determine what they are going
to be doing with their lives.
It appears that even though you two are very happy with each other,
she is ready to move on and get her life started without having
to worry about trying to keep a relationship going half-way across
the country.
Respect Her Wishes
Personally, long distance relationships only work 5% of the time
and I think that you should respect her wishes and let her go and
do her own thing. It is obviously very important to her.
I am not saying to lose contact, just hold off on the relationship
until she decides what she really wants. If you guys truly care
about each other and are destined to be together, you will be, despite
any obstacles. Agree to be together when you have the opportunity,
but when you are busy with your schooling and are so far away from
each other, take a break from the relationship.
If It Is Meant To Be You Will End Up Together
If you two are meant for each other you will be able to handle
this separation from each other and be able to resume a healthy
relationship after you have graduated from school and get situated
with your lives.
Only time will tell what will happen with your relationship.
You have to let her decide what is best for her and respect her
wishes. If she really loves you, she will let you know how she feels
and may even change her mind and decide that a long-distance relationship
is necessary.
 It
Can Be Difficult To Manage Life And A Relationship
A lot of people don't like to be tied down while they are trying
to figure out what they are going to do with their lives, it can
be too hard for some to keep a long-distance relationship going
when they are trying to go to school and make something of themselves.
You need to just let her know that you will always love her and
be there for her when she needs you, but let her go alone and cool
down the relationship. She may realize after she is gone how much
she really cares about you and change her mind. You have to let
time run it's course. Hope that gave you some insight into what
she may be feeling right now.
Good luck and stay strong for her, that is what she needs the most,
emotional support.
Sincerely,
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