Bodacious said:

Some people are just not a good fit (so to speak) as lovers, even though they may be compatible in other ways.

A Reader Responds:

Chemistry just happens - it is truly a chemical reaction.

Obviously you would rather spend your time and life with your ex, so relax, enjoy her.

Hold Off On Sex

Hold off on the sex until you guys are really hot for each other. One day it may be a glance, or a touch, who knows!

But finding a soul mate is rare. Don't give up until you no longer want to be together.

– Deb

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