Dear Elizabeth,

Don't Marry Him

You should not get married to this man. Your entire letter seemed to be arguing for it. You say that you might be scared because of your parents, but you don't tell us anything about them. It's hard to help when you don't give us all the information you can.

Even though there have been medical advances, such as Viagra, which may be of help, It sounds like you're just waiting for our seal of approval on the decision you've already made.

There Are Underlying Issues

Yep. They are just not compatible.

I'm worried about the fact that you two have broken up several times in the past. There are obviously underlying issues that you need to solve before marriage should even be considered.

I agree. It won't work.

If you marry this guy, I guarantee that you will ultimately end up divorced, probably after you've cheated on him. Save him the heartache, and don't get married.

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