Dear Panel,

Should I marry my fiance? I have been dating this guy for over five years. I have broken up with him several times during our relationship. Mostly because he has a low libido and because I always feel like we are so different.

He Has A Medical Problem

Recently, we found out that there is a medical reason for our sexual differences, and it is an ongoing problem that may or may not last for his life.

He's My Best Friend

I love him more than anything, he is my best friend. He is the sweetest guy and would make a great husband. But I am so afraid that I am making a mistake. Marrying him means that I have to give up ever having romance, a satifying sex life, and maybe even children.

It's Like He's Pre-Puberty

How do I know if I love him, am I just scared because of my parents, or if my fears about his lack of sexual desires is the problem? He is a wonderful boyfriend, and would make a great father and husband, but as a lover he is almost pre-puberty.

What should I do? I love him and he loves me, but somehow it just doesn't seem like enough.

Female, age 24, USA

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