Dear Elizabeth,

I recognize the word libido, but I'm not sure of the definition. I am not even going to look it up. Let's say he has a low sex drive or half a penis or something.

If you feel this way now chances are it isn't enough for you that he is a sweet guy. Sounds like you may be making excuses. Not purposely or in a bad way.

Sex Is A Big Part Of Relationships

Yeah. They could try just being platonic friends.

The thing is, passion and sex are a huge part of a successful relationship. I really wish they weren't but the fact is they are. We were born with this unexplainable sex drive or desire and act upon it.

You sound to me like you have too many doubts about marrying this guy.

You Haven't Hit Your Sexual Peek Yet

I would say first try and see if this problem of his can be fixed. If not, face the fact that you will be living without a crucial part of a healthy relationship. And Ms. Elizabeth, you haven't hit your sexual peak yet. Just think about that one.

It Won't Work

Okay, bottom line is that if you have doubts now, it won't work out. Sorry. Those are the likely facts.

Think hard but think fast because it wouldn't be fair to have him wait any longer than he has to.

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