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Dear Elizabeth,
Seems to me you worry a lot about your sex life more than anything
else.
- you've broken up with him several times already due to his low
sex drive
- your concern about marriage is not having enough sex
- you mention his "pre-puberty" lover status
You Are Not Compatible
Although you might find him to be a really nice guy, he is probably
not compatible with you.
You have literally answered your own question with these statements:
"... I am making a mistake." and "... I have to give
up ever having romance, a satisfying sex life, and maybe even children."
(you can always adopt children), and "but some how, it just
doesn't seem like enough."
Become Platonic Friends
My suggestion would be to steadily become platonic friends and
see if the situation improves. Four outcomes can happen: his libido
will hit puberty, your libido will level off to his level, you will
move on or he will move on.
I'm sorry to say this, but marrying him would probably make you
miserable. And if he's the nice guy you claim him to be, he'll probably
let you go. Marriage is about a lifetime of happiness (mutually),
you have already forecasted your own future, congratulations!
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