Dear M,

18/14 ratio huh? I am not the biggest fan of guys dating girls that young, but she may be really mature for her age. So you both may be very close emotionally and physically.

Don't Get Too Serious

First, just to let you know, you both have a lot of growing up to do. I do myself and I am 26-years-old. Don't go thinking marriage yet. Just relax and have a good time.

Talk To Her Parents

I agree. He has to find out how her parents feel.

Second, I hope her parents are okay with this whole thing. You can get yourself in a lot of trouble, even if you don't have sex.

Have a long talk with her parents, tell them how you feel and how you respect their child.

That's asking a lot. 4 years is a long time to wait for sex!

Third, keep thinking like you are thinking. No sex until she is 18. God bless you if you can hold out that long. 19-22 is a man's sexual peak.

Good look my brother.

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