Dear Panel,

Should I break up with my fiance and risk losing him just to see what else is out there, or is it okay to cheat as long as he doesn't find out?

He's My Soul Mate

I really hope you can give me some advice. I am completely in love with my fiance. He is the greatest guy and would do anything for me. He is also my best friend and soul mate.

I Don't Know If I Want To Be Married

I am really young and have doubts about marriage, though. I don't even know if I want to get married!! I said "yes" because I couldn't imagine spending my life with anyone else, but I am so confused!

I'm Lusting After Someone Else

I am losing interest in our lovemaking and finding myself lusting for someone else. I know it is just lust and not love, but it is so overpowering--does this mean I am not ready for commitment?

Should I break it off with my fiance so I can be free to try new things and lose my soul mate or stick it out and be unhappy in "other" ways? (could it just be a temporary fancy?) Or should I just see if what I am lusting for is worth it and not tell? I don't know if I could but I am dying inside!!! Help me!

Female, age 20, USA

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