I came across this web site during my search for an answer. I would be an excellent panelist because of my blossoming array of valuable advice. I have been in more than one relationship and let me tell you Mr. Sensitive I have failed in more than one!

My Current Relationship

Currently, I am in a relationship of about 5 months, I believe that I can make this relationship a success, but what my definition of success is and that of another could be quite different. I have not defined success in my own personal relationships.

I am not married, however, success is how close you can become to the other person, either sexually, emotionally, physically or all of them. When you succeed at all of them I believe that is SUCCESS.

I am Dr. Ruth

As for me, I am a 21 year old working girl returning to post-secondary education in the fall. I have seen it all, from one night stands to long "drawn out" serious relationships. My friends always come to me for advice, like I am Dr. Ruth, my most popular piece of advice is, get ready "are you that stupid?"

I have noticed that when you are on the outside looking in, you see the problems much more clearly than when you are staring up at him through rose-colored glasses. From all of this experience with my own dating/ relationships I have become quite educated in the world of the MAN.

I never thought I would find it, but I did, a guy who likes to share his feelings and thoughts! So now I am thinking, now that I've found what I have always dreamed for what the hell do I do with this emotional man? I never thought I would say those two words together. But I guess that it is possible, probably rare.

I've Seen All Kinds of Guys

I have seen all kinds of guys from the asshole prick, to the Mr. Sensitive feel alike! I am a very rounded female that can give advice to the, well let's say, entire population. I feel like I have been through every thing in a short time by such a young age. I am no fool in love. I should have my own talk show (not to sound too high on myself), but hey self-confidence will promote successful partnerships.

My personal view on life is not to sweat the little things, or in any case the big ones too. We aren't here to kill ourselves stressing out about work or the opposite sex. We are here to live and let live. I may sound like an old hippie, not even a hint of hippie in my blood line, but what was stood for then we should carry on in our journey through love, life and the final existence. Enough babble already! That I am good at, babble.

I AM Human

To let you know I am human, not from any other life form. I do have opinions on almost every issue, I am not afraid to stand up for my beliefs. You can't hurt my loud mouth by calling my ideals "stupid", but you could if you called me ugly!!!!

I hope that I have proved to be a candidate for your panel, as I would love to be able to change someone's personal life.

– Sandy