I disagree with this overly simplistic answer because I feel it is important for lovers to be extremely communicative regarding their wants and desires and yes,even their apprehensions when it comes to lovemaking. 

I think this is especially true on a wedding night where the idea presumably is to make the experience very memeorable for both of the lovers.  What a better way to launch the "openess" required in a long term relationship than to have a frank and perhaps even arousing conversation about what you would both like to experience in the honeymoon suite!