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January 2, 2001: Here are short answers to 13 of the questions
that we found in our mail box.
For more serious answers, please click on any of the other questions
on the main page.
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Dear Panel,
Is it natural to fall in love
with your same gender? I need your help.
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Sure, it's natural.
But personally, I'd try to fall for one person, not the
whole gender.
Less confusing that
way.
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If you're gay, it
is the most natural thing.
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Is it natural? Yes.
Is it going to be accepted by friends, family, church, and the
rest of the outside world? Who knows?
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Dear
Panel,
Why
would my boyfriend only have sex with me once a month?
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He has twenty-nine
other girlfriends. Just a theory.
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Because he's
backwards. It's usually EXCEPT once a month.
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Dear
Panel,
My
girlfriend is 16 years old and still a virgin. I have
tried to have sex with her but to no avail. She is afraid
of my penis size (7"). She thinks it will ruin her insides.
What should I do?
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What does she
think about your tongue?
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Not have sex
with her. No means no. Also, 16 means statutory rape.
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Dear
Panel,
Do
I have to tell a guy how I feel or can I let a relationship
evolve on its own? Can we avoid talking about our feelings?
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Of course you
can avoid talking about your feelings! There's always
the weather to discuss.
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Communication
can be verbal or non-verbal, talking is not necessary
If you find
his tongue down your throat, it probably means you have
already evolved.
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Dear
Panel,
What
do I do if I like a guy and he says he likes me, too,
but he has a girl who is out of town?
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Tell him to
take a hike AND that you are just too tired to walk with
him.
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Do
you want sex? |
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Dear
Panel,
I
always think that I am too skinny for boys to be attracted
to me.
I've
heard that there is someone for everyone; is that true?
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There's plenty
of boys who like skinny girls.
There are even
more who like girls who feel good about themselves.
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Yes. Many men
actually prefer skinny women. The ones who are are only
attracted to busty Playboy Playmate types you don't want
anyway. They're stuck in a stage of arrested development,
and had weird relationships with their mothers.
Also, be sure
to go to college. You will gain 15 pounds your freshman
year.
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Dear
Panel,
If
I'm a freshman, is it OK for me to date a senior?
And
how do I know if he likes me or if he just wants a piece?
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Probably not,
and you
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All boys want
a piece. It doesn't matter what year they are.
It's totally
OK to date a senior — just be careful
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Its okay to
date him, but if he tries to go further than just a kiss
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Dear
Panel,
I'm a freshman in college. I'm outgoing, I party, but
I'm having serious issues meeting boys. What should I
do?
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Excuse me, could
you state the problem again? |
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Go to a co-ed
school. |
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Dont look,
have fun, when you least expect him he will show up! |
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Dear
Panel,
What do women look for when selecting whom they want to
marry?
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Fat wallet, big diamond, great sex. |
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Love.
(But they
should also be looking for respect, stability, and friendship.)
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Dear
Panel,
I
was over at a friend's when I first met him. He was perfect.
We went out for two hours, then I dumped him for another.
One
week later, I asked him back out, then dumped him within
a week.
I
know that I lost him, but how can I try to get him back?
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Hey, share
the wealth.
There's a lot
of other guys out there waiting to be continually dumped
by you.
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If you've lost
him, you can't get him back. Gone is gone. Say bahbye.
And while
we're at it, you might want to re-evaluate your courtship
rituals. Generally, dumping people is not a good recipe
for winning them over. My big advice: Think before you
dump.
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Dear
Panel,
Hi, I'm a 20 year old male and I have been liking this
particular girl. However, I don't think she likes me because
she avoids talking to me and refuses to go out with me
by giving all kinds of excuses.
What
should i do? Should I keep on calling her or just forget
about her?
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Just out of
curiosity, what kind of sign would you accept to indicate
that you don't have a chance with her?
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Dear
Panel,
I
have been wanting to ask this girl out, but I'm not sure
if she likes me or not.
But
she keeps telling me she's looking for a man. Is that
some type of hint?
--
confussed [male/16/USA]
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Depends.
Are you? |
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Yes,
it's some type of hint. Maybe a man would ask her out. |
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And maybe her
definition of a MAN is a guy who's learned to spell by
[age] 16.
-- PiKK
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Sorry,
that's the last question.
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