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Should I pursue an older guy?

The Reader said:

I'm 14 and I like this 19 year old.

Reader *BEECA* Responds:

I am not the kind of person that will disagree with you because I also am 14 and I am in love with a older guy and although we do not have sex, I love him. He makes and lets me make all of the moves and I like that because then I do not feel pressured.

I would say to write him a long letter telling him your exact felling because then he will know your true person. It worked for me and now I am in a great relationship with a guy that is on a different level than others. Just DO NOT let him do anything you would normally do!

Please write back. I want to know how it went. I am just like you. Please read this! Try to e-mail me.

*BEECA*

Reader Reader "I've Been There" Responds:

In a way I agree, but then I disagree because a female, as well as a male, has to follow his/her heart in order to to find out life's experience.

You're not doing anything wrong, but you need to be careful because you are young and you don't want legal issues to interfere with his life.

I've been there

Reader "Please Think" Reader "Please think about your actions" Responds:

I agree with the panelists because a 14 year old girl and a 19 year old guy dating is asking for trouble.

You wouldn't want to see the 19 year old guy you really like to end up in jail, would you? Try sticking to guys your own age and don't be in such a hurry to date and be in a relationship. There are more guys out there than that one. I hope you find a guy more close to your age group and who likes you back.

Please think about your actions

 

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