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Dear Panel,
In these several months,
I knew a girl. Gradually, I found that I like her. So,
I start to date her.
Luckily, she was also
willing to go out with me. (Sometimes we go out with
a group of friends, sometimes she just goes out with
me.)
However, recently, I
find that she seems to have boyfriend. Now, I feel that
I am in dilemma. On the one hand, I really don't want
to give up the chance of developing a deeper relationship
with her. On the other hand, I really want to know whether
or not she really has boyfriend.
Would panel mind giving
some advice to me?
– Ringo
Male, age 20, China
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Ready for the advice?!?
Ask her.
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In the course of developing a deeper relationship, you
will find out if she has a boyfriend.
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Dear Panel,
I recently hooked back
up with my ex boyfriend after I dumped him (I have NO
idea why – he is like my dream guy) 3 months ago.
Please help me make this
work.
– Confused Teen
Female, age 14, Colorado,
USA
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Listen, honey, we can't do the impossible. You're 14,
you're fickle, you admit you don't know what you're doing...
you're on your own! Good luck.
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If he's your dream guy, why did you break up with him
in the first place?
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Dear Panel,
My problem is this: I have
a boyfriend whom I've been dating for a year and a half.
WE have problems like any other couple would, but here
lately all we do is fight.
And there's this other
guy I'm not sure how I feel about.
I love my current boyfriend
but I'm not sure if I still want to be with him or not.
I need someone else's opinion.
Just something telling me what you think. Please.
– Confused5829
Female, age 18, USA
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If you're unsure, take a break, figure out how you feel.
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Dear Panel,
Why do chicks wear makeup?
It doesn't make them look any better, and it tastes awful.
– Rodney
Male, age 25, Aspen, CO
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Bud, stop eating the makeup.
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Goes well with the feathers.
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Well, gee, I can name something that doesn't taste all
that good either... If we can deal, so can you.
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Dear Panel,
How do you know you're
in love?
Also, is there anything
wrong with moving to a city near the one you love even
if it's 18 hours away? I plan on attending school there,
too.
Last question: How soon
is too soon to get married?
– Needing Help
Female, age 19, USA
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If you move to a city just to be with someone, then you're
in love.
It's too soon if you're still asking that question.
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Dear Panel,
I just found out my boyfriend
that I have been going out with for 3 months has been
cheating on me for 3 weeks.
I love him so much –
I can't break up with him.
What should I do.
–
Andrea S.
Female,
age 15, "South East"
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Break up, stay
together...it doesn't matter, you won't be together for
long anyway.
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Dear Panel,
I have a Girlfriend that
is STILL nervous around me. I have to make all the moves,
she wont even kiss me after 5 months.
What should i do, brake
up or not do nething for a month and if she doesn't do
nething, brake up then?
– Bobbalu
Male, age 16, Illinois
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Break up now; she's not right for you. Use your free
time to work on your spelling and grammar.
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Stop making her nervous.
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Dear Panel,
How can I get a perfect
guy that will love me in any situations and will care
about me?
– Lonely...
Female, age 14, Indonesia
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Be the perfect woman.
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I hate to disillusion you, you're so young, but since
you asked I gotta tell you that you can't ever get a perfect
guy.
Keep looking until you find one who's really, really
good for you and to you, and grab him quick once you're
sure of him.
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Dear Panel,
I have just currently gotten out of
a relationship, and it was for the dumbest reason.
I want to know why guys are so difficult
to understand?
– Robin
Female, age
17, Canada
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Guys usually say what they mean. It is women, who extract
too much meaning in trying to understand them, who cause
the problems.
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Dear Panel,
I am very altruistic, but
sometimes that hurts me because I discard my feelings
to keep from hurting someone else.
I'm only in high school
and I'm the truest virgin. I'm a great listener and I
like to make people laugh and make them feel special.
This girl is kind of like
me probably has the same ideas and principles. We're pretty
good friends. She's very sweet and caring, too, with the
same problem as me (about being too altruistic).
See, I've liked this girl
since my sophomore year, it's just she has someone else
in mind that she tries to get out of her head but can't.
I've been talking her about
everything about what I feel, etc. I just want to know
what can I do to help her. See, my plan is to help her
get on a date with this guy to let her see his real personality.
When she soon finds out how he is, she'll either continue
or forget about him.
i'm just trying to find
away to either speed up the process or to help her totally
forget about him. Is there anything that I can do to help
her forget?
Can you help Me?
– Jhonny Pneumonic
Male, age 17, USA
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There's a lot of selfishness hidden in your fancy words
about altruism.
Cut the crap and tell her how you really feel about her.
Then it's up to her.
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Dude, you'll never lose your virginity with ass-backwards
plans like that. Stop being a martyr and get your woman.
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Another guy? Forget altruistic, are you retarded?
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Dear Panel,
IS IT O.K TO SAY I LOVE
YOU AFTER 3 MONTHS?
– KG
Female, age 17, USA
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I said "I really like you" after 1 month and
I was dumped.
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If you feel it. I mean, people have said stupider things.
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Dear Panel,
My 23 year old best
guy friend is dating a 16 year old girl.
How can I convince
him to dump this "jailbait"? He tells
lies to me and says that he is not seeing her anymore,
but I asked around and he still dates her.
What should I do
to help him?
– Disgusted
at Friend's Behavior
Female, age 23,
Ohio
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He doesn't want your help. He'll tire of her after
a while. In the meantime, decide how you feel about
being close friends with a guy who's going after
jailbait: if it were me, it would put a significant
crimp in the friendship. And double dates have got
to be weird!
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He sounds like he is doing just fine and doesn't
want your help. As for you, consider why you are
best friends with somebody who repeatedly lies to
you.
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I don't think there's anything you can do to help
him. Her parents might put him in jail to help her,
though.
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Dear Panel,
I am completely in love, and my boyfriend and I
have been together for almost two years. But I'm
young – not that I want to blame this on hormones
or anything.
I'm currently enamored of someone else, and this
other boy has wrapped himself around my brain in
a way I can't shake. I know that it's just a crush,
that it'll pass with time – but currently,
it's killing me.
Any advice?
– Crushed
Female, age 20,
USA
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You're not completely in love with your boyfriend.
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Dear Panel,
I was wondering why do young teens (15-17 years
old) fall for adult men (20-40 years old)?
– Chillen0
Female, age 16,
Delaware, USA
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One word: maturity. Teenage boys don't seem to
have it.
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Because it takes guys that much longer to grow
up to catch up to where girls are and want to be.
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Money.
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Where do I find these young teens that you are
talking about?
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