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Reader Crushed asked:

I am completely in love, and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. But I'm young – not that I want to blame this on hormones or anything.

I'm currently enamored of someone else, and this other boy has wrapped himself around my brain in a way I can't shake. I know that it's just a crush, that it'll pass with time – but currently, it's killing me.

Any advice?

– Crushed

Female, age 20, USA

 

Reader Kara Responds:

You love your boyfriend, but you don't love him enough to know who you want.

See what you want; if it is just a crush like you say, then you should be able to get over it, but if you are asking how to get rid of him it is...

I agree and disagree with Jayne's advice because Crushed loves her boyfriend, but she doesn't love him enough to know who she wants. If it is just a crush like she says, then she should be able to get over it, but if she is asking how to get rid of him it is more than a crush if she can't get rid of him.

But on the other hand, you can still be in love with someone and have a crush at the same time.

Take Your Own Advice Instead of Handing It Out

No one really knows what to say to people, and I think they should just take their own advice instead of handing it out to other people, if you do that, then maybe you will know what you are talking about a little more. No offense, but I know what I am talking about because this stuff all has happened to me – more than once – and I bet it never happened to you; you aren't thinking of what you would do to handle it.

But you aren't them, you don't know why they are in love, you don't know what they have been through together, so you really can't judge the person. Especially say that they aren't in love or completely in love with a person, because you don't know exactly what is going on.

Well, thanks for listening – even though you probably won't even read this or take it in.

Later,
Kara R.

 

 

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