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Dear Panel,
Is regretting a relationship
right?
– Hi Hi
Female, age 17, Australia
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Sometimes.
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No.
Never live in the past.
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It's not right or wrong. But it sure is unproductive.
Why don't you learn what you can from the experience,
and apply the learning to future relationships? That's
what loving and learning is all about.
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Dear Panel,
Why are men so fearful
of telling their girlfriends how they feel?
– Heather
Female, age 22, USA
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Same reason we hate jumping off of cliffs, you can't
take it back once you take that step.
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Not fearful, some just feel that if they know, then you
know.
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Dear Panel,
Why girls don’t like
me? Why do thay say that they don’t like someone
that look after them?
– Israel S.
Male, age 26, Israel
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'Cause who wants to go out with their father? Besides
those crazy looking chicks on Jerry Springer?
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Because most girls aren't looking for a father or a
mother, but a lover. Try being one of those. L'hitraot...
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Dear Panel,
I honestly believe that
men & women are from opposite planets. I also believe
that my boyfriend loves me and I love him.
What seems to be the trouble,
is presently we are not "clicking"; how do you
fix that? How do you get back that "ooey, gooey,
you complete my day" kind of way?
– Grasshopper
Female, age 27, North
America
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That honeymoon phase is probably over. Grow up and deal
with your relationship instead of tossing it or feeling
defeated because it's not like the movies.
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As George
Carlin says, "Men are from Earth, women are from
Earth; get over it."
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Dear Panel,
I'm madly in love with
a guy which I got to know in high school. He was one year
my senior. At first, I had a crush on him in my 1st year.
It goes on till he was in his final year and me in my
2nd year where he got to know another girl and became
steady.
Afterwhich I gave up hope
until about a couple of months back, he got in touch with
me (and still do till today) after his breakup. Since
he need someone to talk to I came into the picture him
and 'provide a shoulder to cry on & listening ears'
but I realize for the past years I can never forget him
and now I'm beginning to fall for him .....madly and I
mean really in love.
BUT the problem is –
the big big problem is – HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW I LOVE
HIM
Or maybe he does, but is
not saying anything.
Please advise!
– Sufianna
Female, age 22, Brunei
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Tell him how you feel – you will either gain a dry
shoulder or a relationship.
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Dear Panel,
I am 24 and have a girlfriend.
I am happy with her. She is a nice girl.
This is the thing: I have
a problem resisting temptation. I like to hook up with
other girls. Mainly just fooling around. Would never have
sex without a condom. It is never anything personal I
just enjoy it and can't resist. I wish I could but it
is like food. I enjoy it, I don't get emotionally attached
and I go for it.
I am going to Cancun and
I would like to be faithful, but I know that under the
circumstances, (a different country) I won't. Is this
normal?
Can I be faithful? Should
I go with my instincts or what I know is right?
Thanks,
– JimmyJoe
Male,
age 24, New Jersey, USA
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Break up with
her and you'll both be happier!
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If you like fooling
around, then maybe you shouldn't be in a steady relationship.
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If you can't
develop will power, at least stop your pathetic excuses.
It's a line of crap you're feeding yourself and us. If you
want to be a jerk, be a jerk. But be an honest one, at least
to yourself, while you're lying to your girlfriend.
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Dear Panel,
Does he still love after
he sleeps with someone else?
– keidri
Female, age 14, USA
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You bet. The real question is, who?
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He still loves HIMSELF, eh???
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Depends upon the situation but mostly...A BIG NO!
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Dear Panel,
I am ..35 years old female
w two kids, 8 and 11. I've been divorced about 8 years.
I am very independent, own my home, do yard work, repairs,
etc. Kids, job and home keep me busy but I am lonely.
He is 42 years old male.
Divorced about 13 years. Lives alone. Says he is tired
of being alone but doesn't put forth a lot of effort in
a relationship.
We have dated for about
five years, off and on. Things would be going well and
then he would break it off. Somehow we always drifted
back together. We talked about marriage as a possibility.
We always had a great time together and remained "friends."
He has come back into my life, says he realizes he doesn't
put effort into a relationship and has been lonely since
we've been apart. We have poured out our souls to each
other.
Are we both crazy or soulmates?
– Confused Again
Female, age 35, Pennsylvania,
USA
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Neither. You're both lonely.
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If he's coming back because he needs you, you're soulmates.
If he's coming back because he just needs somebody, you're
crazy.
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Dear Panel,
Is a boy wanting to know about his feminine
side gay?
If not, how can you let your feminine
side out?
– thegame
Male, age 15,
England
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He's not gay if he's using it as a pick-up line. I don't
let it out; I just stay in touch with it.
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If "letting your feminine side out" means that
you're attracted to other guys, then, yeah, it's okay,
you have "gay" feelings.
If it means that you want to be sensitive, nurturing,
sweet, loving and affectionate, then just get new friends
who understand you.
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Dear Panel,
I just met the most right
girl I've ever found. We went out a few times and she
was encouraging.
Now she gives me the excuses I always
get:
- weird to
date someone from work,
- don't want
a relationship right now, and
- I am seeking
something more serious than she might be ready for.
But, she will "kill
me" if we can't stay friends and hang out a lot.
How can I convince her
to take the next step?
– Phil
Male, age 23, USA
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She doesn't like you. You don't have to be friends with
her if you don't want to.
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Dear Panel,
Why is it that some people
are willing to be present in a relationship but choose
not to be fully involved emotionally with the other person,
holding back, keeping silent when certain feeling must
really be discussed?
– Sandy B.
Female, age 24, Northern
USA
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Because they're men.
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Dear Panel,
I dated this girl
about 4 years ago. We only dated for only a month
but I realized that I fell in love with her. We
still keep in contact. The contact varies but over
the last couple of months. We have kept in contact
almost every week or so.
Well, I have been
with somebody for about 2 years but I just don't
have the feeling I have for this other girl. I mean
I just feel very different with my current girlfriend
that I did with my ex. I really like her a lot and
I am in love with her. Well what should I do?
Should I tell my
ex my feelings towards her? Well as you can see
I am confused. I hope you can give me some advice.
– Supersonic
Male, age 19, USA
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Act on your true feelings.
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Why don't you tell them both? That way you could
let someone that you don't see regularly know you
love her, and someone that you do see regularly,
know that you are using her.
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Dear Panel,
Why do guys tell the girl that they are with all
of these sweet things and tell them they love them,
and then around other people say bad things about
the girl that they are with?
– Andrea
Female, age 16,
Texas, USA
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They want to cover all their bases.
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Because that guy is a liar. Is he lying to you
or his friends?
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A macho thing – they're hiding their real
feelings in public!
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Sex or to look cool in front of their friends.
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It doesn't matter why or who he is lying to, he
is not right for you. Dump him.
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Dear Panel,
Guys say I am pretty (over the Internet) but in
real life, guys never ask me out and hardly ever
talk to me.
I am between average and popular – so I don’t
understand why I am ignored in real life; but yet
guys over the Internet say I am pretty! I always
thought I was average-looking, but when people over
Internet said I was pretty; I don't understand!
– BoomBoom
Female, age 13,
USA
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Because guys over the Internet can't SEE you.
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