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Dear Panel,
I'm Nuix, and my question:
Is it wrong for a girl
to ask her boyfriend to come back to her?
– Nuix
Female, age 19, Philippines
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"Wrong" is not be the right word. Try "Useless".
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Dear Panel,
Can I ask you?
I need to know why right
now I still don't have a boyfriend yet.
– Nad
Female, age 22, Maylasia
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No particular reason. That's just the way life is.
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Ask the boys who are around you why they don't have you
as a girlfriend.
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Lack of looking or looking in the wrong places.
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Dear Panel,
I want to know all about
Romance and true friendship.
– Vinz
Male, age 30, India
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Romance is true friendship with more physical stuff
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Dear Panel,
There's this guy I went
out with and on our date he told me he is not ready for
a relationship. I'm fine with that because at least he
was honest.
The problem is he gets
insanely jealous if I go out with someone else even if
it's a female friend.
Should I wait around while
he decides he wants relationship, or should I continue
to go out with others?
–
Jen
Female,
age 21, USA
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He's right. He's not ready for a relationship. Move on.
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He wants to have his cake and eat it, too. Don't let
him get away with it.
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Dear Panel,
I am in love with boyfriend
whom I been dating for 2 years.
I just found out about
some of his new and old female friends and he acting as
if he is hiding something. I have a real good feeling
that there is an intimacy with the friends and his self.
I need advice on how to
stop the pain in my heart, soul, and the pid of stomache.
– Hotangel
Female, age 21, USA
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Ask him if he's involved with anyone else.
If he says, "Yes," break up.
If he says, "No" and you believe him, then
you'll be fine.
If he says, "No" and you don't trust him, you
have to break up. A relationship doesn't work without
trust.
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Dear Panel,
I am .. a 20 year old
college student, the only girl, the youngest child.
My fiancé Tom is
a 27 year old male who just got out of jail 4-5 months
ago who is trying to get back on his feet. He's looking
for a job and wants to go back to school.
My father is a pain. He
doesn't like my fiancé because he isn't in college
and claims that he is trying ot mess up my life. He doesn't
want us to be together and gives us both a hard time.
My fiancé and I
have been going out for a little over a year. We are planning
on getting married. We were both doing fine finacially
until he was falsely accused of drug possession. He spent
2-3 months in jail and is now out trying to get back on
his feet.
I wanted to have a nice
family wedding but it doesn't look that way. We planned
to get married next week without anyone knowing about
it. I don't care anymore. My father is giving us a hard
time but I assume that when we go through it there is
nothing that can be done afterwards.
Will this relationship
work?
– Looking for Answers
Female,
age 20, Southeastern USA
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Probably not.
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Yes, if you both
want it to work it.
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No.
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Basically, you're
acting like an immature kid. If you want to get married,
be mature about it and WAIT until it looks more solid.
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Dear Panel,
Well, my boyfriend wants
to have sex.
I told I have to think
about it. I'm really scared because i have two different
sized breasts. I don't want him to think I'm weird and
break up with me.
Why are my breasts like
this?
– Confused48603
Female, age 15, USA
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Why don't you wait to have sex until either your breasts
are the same size, or you can worry about more important
consequences of the act?
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You're 15 – you would be a freak if your breasts
were completely symmetrical.
– 22 and two different breast sizes!
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Dear Panel,
I am in love with a boy
named Chris. We share the same interests but he is two
years older than me. He throws subtle hints like sitting
next to me all the time and waiting for me.
We were playing truth or
dare and I was asked who I liked. When I said “no
one”, he pouted and asked why not him.
Is he kidding? Should I
tell him how I feel? Please help.
– Vero
Female, age 12, USA
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This is what's known as a mating dance.
He doesn't want to make himself vulnerable by admitting
how much he likes you, so he dances around, waiting for
a signal from you.
Guys are dense. Spell it out for him.
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Do you want me to pass him a note at fifth period?
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Dear Panel,
I broke up with my boyfriend on October.
Then he started dating another girl
but in November he turned back to me saying he was very
sorry and that he wanted to be my boyfriend again. I said
that I still loved him but as we were going on vacations
on December we wouldn't be able to see each other so there
was no sense in starting in that date; so we agreed to
start after vacations (in February).
But in January I met another guy and
I thought I had forgot about my ex so we started dating
and he became my boyfriend. When we had almost 10 days
as a couple, my ex appeared and I told him about my new
boyfriend. He told me to please think about what was I
doing.
Now I broke up with my new boyfriend
only because the first one confused me. Now I don't know
which one I love more and I don't want to choose wrong.
What does my heart want? I really don't
know. Please help me!!!
– Caro
Female, age
14, Chile
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Fortunately, I know what your 14 year-old heart wants.
It wants to date more than your ex-boyfriend. Do it.
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Ignore your old boyfriend – rehashed relationships
rarely work!
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Dear Panel,
I am in love with this
guy, he is a "Leo" a very confident guy with
different sets of thinking, very funny, charming, he is
the guy that most girls would like to get, but as for
me I didn't know he's that good so I am totally honest
with him talking about everything, i am a "Scorpio"
and I can somehow sense that he likes me too.
But to like him I know
I will have to give up my religion/faith. What should
I do?
– Lee
Female, age 17, Singapore
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Don't give up your faith for some guy.
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Does giving up your religion mean losing your faith in
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Dear Panel,
Hi – my girlfriend
and I were together for about 11 months and we broke up.
I don't know why, either.
The wierdest thing is when
ever i did anything wrong she would alway get mad, but
when ever she does something wrong she never admits it
and expects me not to get mad.
What do I do?
– Jonathan
Male, age 16, from "mountains"
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Women. Who can figure?
Go on to the next one and don't tell her how crazy the
last one was.
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Dear Panel,
If I am 18 and my
girlfriend is 16, would that be considered statutory
rape?
–
Brian
Male,
age 18, Florida, USA
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Only if you teach her naughty things.
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No. In Florida,
a person under the age of 24 can legally have sex
with anyone who is at least 16.
If you'd like to learn more about statutory rape
laws, you might want to read our article "What
is statutory rape, and why?"
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Dear Panel,
Hi!
There is this girl i really like but she is only
12 years old and my self is only 16. What should
I do?
Is she too young? Please help me.
– John C.
Male, age 16, UK
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She's too young. Wait for her to grow up. In the
meantime, keep yourself busy with friends your own
age.
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Are you s...l...o...w?
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Dear Panel,
I want to know how
do you do the french kiss and how long do you have
to kiss?
I mean “average”,
because when I kiss with a boy I get very quick
bored after 10 seconds.
Lots of greetings,
–
me Leo
Female,
age 15, The Netherlands
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My french kissing is not average. But I'd say 10
seconds is plenty long.
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If you get bored, you're kissing the wrong guy.
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that's the last question.
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