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Reader Responds:
I disagree because I hate the way they say that "you're
only xx years old" in the answers.
Give the Real Reasons
It bothers me, because that's not the real reason. The
reason that someone who is 13 should not have sex is not
because of youth, but because of the HUGE responsibility.
You know, issues like VD and unplanned pregnancy and birth
control and intimacy etc.
Someone who's 13 should have to worry about zits and school
and peer pressure and not worry about sex until they're
ready. That's the real reason.
It's Stupid Not To Give Reasons
It sounds so stupid to give advice based on age without
giving the reason why. It's like a reaction, and not an
answer that requires thought.
I don't come to this website for reactions. I want answers.
And I want to know why.
Old And Young
Female, age 23, Miami
Reader
Rose Responds:
Well, personally I wouldn't have sex with someone unless
we were dating.
But you should ask him to be together if you think it's
the right thing and you like each other both.
What other reason not to? You are only thirteen
so my advice to you is to not have sex untill the legal
age and enjoy life at your youth.
Rose
Female, age 13, Hawaii
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