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Mad In Love said:

...I have met a guy through the Internet. ...We will meet very soon. And we have talked about having sex with each other on our first night...

Reader Mabarosi Responds:

Hey...

It's obvious this guy is only in it for the sex.

You've been talking to him on the 'Net for three months and you think you love him – I'm sorry, but it's an illusion. I don't think it's possible to love someone you don't even know. Yes, you're going to claim that you know him very well, because all you do is talk to him about yourselves.

He Could Be Lying

But it's very possible that he's being selective about the information he's telling you about himself – he could even be lying. You don't know who he really is! And you think you're going to lose your virginity to him the minute you meet him in real life? This doesn't sound right.

You Can Wait Longer

I'm very suspicious of this situation – you could find yourself with a total jerk who might try to make you do things you don't want to do. I understand that you want to meet this guy you've become such good friends with, but why are you rushing to have sex with him? You're a virgin and you're 27 years old – I'm sure you can wait a little bit longer. Be careful.

Mabarosi

Female, age 16, Australia

Linda Said:

I would advise picking a different night than your first to be sexual with each other – or else you may find it special in a way you really regret later.

Reader KSP Responds:

I disagree because sex should be saved for marriage only!

I'm in love with a guy online, but I can say right now that if we did meet, we would most definitely wait until marriage to have sex. Always.

KSP143

Female, age 15, Michigan

 

 

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