Reader "Loveless in Vegas" Responds:
I agree. Right on, Linda! So simple, yet you said it all.
How far we go to read into what a person says or does to
know if they're the "one for us!"
If someone wanted to be good news in our lives, I believe
we would feel comfortable drawing that conclusion on our
own. Instead of choosing between the good, the bad and the
ugly, why not be more focused on choosing mutual feelings?
Feelings and Values
If anything, give someone a sporting chance to win you
over, but I can't see just arbitrarily choosing a mattress
mate based only on one person's feelings for the other,
or only on one's values.
Is it so taboo to believe that love requires both?
Just putting in my 10 cents. After all, I am "Loveless."
– Loveless in Vegas
Female, age 37, Las Vegas, NV
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