Dear Confused Soul,

Personally I don't condone marrying anyone that that I haven't met and dated for a long time. This is not a traditional arrangement from what I can glean from your question, therefore I assume that your parents are not involved in this process and have not brokered with anyone.

There's No Guarantee

Do you really feel comfortable not having any solid background on this person, at least in an arranged marriage the broker does extensive research on the potential partner, family and finances. In this situation you have no guarantee.

Slow Down

Is this socially acceptable among your family? If you are not 100% comfortable then I suggest you slow down and really think about this objectively. The desire to marry seems to be clouding your judgment. Proceed cautiously and good luck.

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