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| Dear Panel, My boyfriend likes to porn surf and I want to know if I should be offended? – CanCan Gogo Female, age 37, Desert |
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| Dear Panel, I met a guy who has remarked to a friend he is interested in me. So we go out and he gives me nothing but positive signs he is interested, body language, looks, the way he talks to me. But then he tells me he is not interested. The confusing part is I asked him what his type was and he described me, then he told me he met a girl and the way he described her it sounded like me and he tells me I don't need to know her name. I really like this guy but I'm very confused. He said he wants to be friends which I don't mind it's just I am getting mixed signals. Please help me. Now, I have a boyfriend but I'm in the middle of breaking up and he knows this. Could that be a factor? – Succvbi Female, age 23, USA |
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Finish breaking up with your boyfriend, and then you'll know if that was a factor. |
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| Dear Panel, I am in love with this boy and I am ready to have sex, but his ex wants him back. I don't want him to hurt me. – Socky's Little Boo Female, age 16, USA |
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You never mention if he's in love with you, or is that important? |
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Then don't have sex with him. Let things build emotionally first. |
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| Dear Panel, I am a 17-year-old male. I'm quiet, and usually keep to myself, except with friends. I'm eccentric, and some find me weird. She's 19, extremely loving, and very sensitive. Someone I'll spend my life with. We met online, and we now live together, after a month. I'm also new at sex, so it's kinda hard to control the urges, but I also have doubts about the relationship. The last one I had was terrible. Is it normal to question whether I should stay with her? – AnonymousMale, age 17, USA |
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Yes. Just don't get married until you know the answer. |
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| Dear Panel, I've talked to this dude for about 7 months and he has a girlfriend who is pregnant. But he tells me that he only talks to her because of the baby. And he's with me every weekend. Should I ignore the fact that he has a girl? – Shortyme Female, age 16, Virginia |
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| Dear Panel, Hi. I am a 17-year-old high school grad who is not currently attending college. I have been dating a girl for 2 years and love her deeply. I have never cheated or even thought of it until last night. I know a girl who is way too young for me. She is a 14-year-old freshman and I love her like a little sister. I talk to her every night online until late but last night when I was leaving her house she hugged me and we looked at each other and it was weird. I had the feeling that I wanted to just kiss her and she wanted to kiss me. I did not kiss her because I was so mixed up at the whole situation. This was a girl that I give advice to and trust with anything but I have never had feelings like this about her. If you can help me it would be greatly appreciated. I feel like a loser about the whole age and my girlfriend aspects of it all. Thank you. – Werd Male, age 17, USA |
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Bud, either go to college or get a job. And lose the 14-year-old. |
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| Dear Panel, I like these two guys but I can't decide which one I want. Can you help me? – Anonymous Female, age 18, North Dakota |
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Sure, take the one on the left. |
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| Dear Panel, If I like someone or maybe love someone at school do I just walk up and ask them out? If they say "no" they're going to laugh and tell everyone. Or is there another way? I want a serious relationship, nothing short! Even though I'm young! Please give me some advice! – How's Ya GF? What GF? Male, age 14, UK |
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I'm not sure, but I do know that any girl that says no and then laughs at you, is not worth it in the first place. |
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You're 14! You have lots of time for love. |
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| Dear Panel, Can you be in love with someone over the internet? If you plan on going to see the person in real life? What if you only see the person on pictures and you love them and you are scared that the person you are going to meet is not going to like the real you in real life and not on-line? – Mala Plava Female, age 18, America |
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Sure, if you're planning on getting married on the internet, and living your life together on the internet. Otherwise, wait and see if you love the real person. |
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NEVER meet privately. That has SLASHER MOVIE written all over it. |
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You can love someone over the Internet,
it has happened to people before. However, if I was you, I'd hold
my feelings in check until after you've met this person. Just remember-
on the Internet, you (and |
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| Dear Panel, I have gal friend and want to make sexual relationship with her but I am unable to told her how I start. – Raz Male, age 25, Asia |
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...to start, take off your pants. |
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| Dear Panel, I am wondering if I am setting myself up to get hurt? I have been dating this girl around 5 months, and I am totally in love with her. But there is one big problem. She still lives with this other guy. She keeps saying how bad it is there, and how unhappy she is, but she makes no effort to leave. What should I do? – Greg Male, age 31, USA |
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Leave. |
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| Dear Panel, Do you think I'm ever going to get laid? (seriously) – Unknown Male, age 39, America |
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How much money are you willing to shell out? |
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Yes. If that's your goal, getting laid is pretty easy. |
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Not if you keep referring to it as "getting laid". (seriously) |
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Sorry, that's the last question. Read the 13 Snappy Answers again
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