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Should I lose my virginity to a visitor?

Dear Panel,

I am in a long distance relationship at the moment , we have been together now for about a month.

Why would he expect sex from a virgin?

He lives in London. He is coming out to California, (where I live) to visit in a few weeks,and I know that he is kind of expecting sex, as I told him that I am a virgin.

Anyway, I don't know if I will ever see him again, but should I or should I not have sex with him? I don't want to look like a slut, but I also wonder if this is the last time I will see him and should I take the chance at being with my dream man????

Help please!

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